Today is Random Acts of Kindness Day
FEBRUARY 17, 2019
Kindness is one of my core values. Without kindness, I have no purpose. My goals and aspirations thrive on being kind. I grew up Catholic and basically, the only thing that connected with me from the church was being good to others. I have spent my life volunteering, smiling at strangers and writing hand-made cards to my loved ones. I couldn’t possibly imagine living my life selfishly and without being as thoughtful as I am.
It wasn’t until recently that I actually realized I was doing myself some good being kind. There are many scientific facts on how being kind can help one’s health. I am only going to focus on the mental health impact of kindness but just know kindness truly can do wonders.
- Do you ever wonder why, when you volunteer or do something kind for someone, you feel like you just finished a run on the treadmill? Well, that’s because doing nice things for other people promotes feelings of connectedness and accomplishment, hence releasing serotonin, the feel-good neurotransmitter.
- Kind people have 23% less of the stress hormone, cortisol.
- A University of British Columbia held a study where a group of people with anxiety were instructed to carry out at least six acts of kindness a week. After a month, there was a notable increase in positive moods, relationship satisfaction and a decrease in social avoidance in socially anxious individuals.
- Observing acts of kindness produces oxytocin, which increases one’s self-esteem and optimism.
- In 2010 Harvard Business School performed a survey in 136 different countries that measured happiness. People who were altruistic financially proved to be the happiest.
Now you’re probably wondering, how can I participate in Random Acts of Kindness Day to improve my mental health? Well, below I have a unique list of ideas for you that don’t cost any money!
- My favorite, of course, is making and writing a hand-made card to those you appreciate.
- Sign up to do a 5k for your favorite charitable cause.
- Sign up to write letters to those struggling with mental illness here @ http://www.moreloveletters.com/
- Call an elderly loved one and chat with them.
- Declutter your house and ask local shelters what they are accepting donations of.
- Comment on your favorite social media follower’s post(s) and tell them what you appreciate about them.
- And most importantly, be kind to yourself by doing something special for yourself!
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